Update?Matt79d said:So ive noticed a lot of posts asking about advice when it comes to girls.. Seems like most of these come from guys in HS, so I just wanted to throw some stuff out there that I have learned. I hope this helps some of you..
So let me start off with the main point behind this post.. In HS, enjoy yourself. HS is a time where you have little to no responsibility outside of school, and things are much more simple. Enjoy hanging out with your buddies, enjoy the girls, and dont take things to seriously.
When you start dating your first girlfriend or two, its easy to fall head over heels for them. Its an emotion that you are not used to, and it feels great. Truthfully, this probably wont last. Enjoy and learn from the experience. My first HS gf came when I was 15. I thought we would be together forever LOL, that lasted a year, and havent heard from here since.
I guess the easiest way to sum this up, is that who you are in HS is probably not who you will be in the years after. When you graduate, life will take you and everyone you know in different directions, and lead to new experiences. Things that mattered or didnt matter in HS will change. You will find new passions and meet new people, and its hard to be with someone who you feel like your growing apart from whether it be distance, physical, mentally, etc.
I dated a girl from age 16-22. Fell in love, and still in love. Not sure if im in love with who we were at one point, in love with her, in love with the idea of being in love with here, idk. She is on the east coast going to school growing as a person and I am trying to do the same out here. Everything I said above can be demonstrated through this relationship. When we were in HS, the biggest decision in life was what movie we were going to watch. We graduated and attended schools within the same area. Then you run into situations like money, new passions that the other person does not share, status of you relationship and where it leads, maturity, new friends, etc. All I can say guys is, enjoy your experiences while they last and if/when things end, be thankful for them, and then on to the next one.
I was going to get into the dreadful "Twenty One".. The age most girls want to "explore" who they are (which is great if your a single guy looking to get laid, but terrible if your in a long term relationship). But this was already long enough, and im sure someone else can hit on this if they want.
Joe seems to be the man when it comes to advice, so I cant wait to see what he has to add.
To all my high school dudes chasing girls
So ive noticed a lot of posts asking about advice when it comes to girls.. Seems like most of these come from guys in HS, so I just wanted to throw some stuff out there that I have learned. I hope this helps some of you..
So let me start off with the main point behind this post.. In HS, enjoy yourself. HS is a time where you have little to no responsibility outside of school, and things are much more simple. Enjoy hanging out with your buddies, enjoy the girls, and dont take things to seriously.
When you start dating your first girlfriend or two, its easy to fall head over heels for them. Its an emotion that you are not used to, and it feels great. Truthfully, this probably wont last. Enjoy and learn from the experience. My first HS gf came when I was 15. I thought we would be together forever LOL, that lasted a year, and havent heard from here since.
I guess the easiest way to sum this up, is that who you are in HS is probably not who you will be in the years after. When you graduate, life will take you and everyone you know in different directions, and lead to new experiences. Things that mattered or didnt matter in HS will change. You will find new passions and meet new people, and its hard to be with someone who you feel like your growing apart from whether it be distance, physical, mentally, etc.
I dated a girl from age 16-22. Fell in love, and still in love. Not sure if im in love with who we were at one point, in love with her, in love with the idea of being in love with here, idk. She is on the east coast going to school growing as a person and I am trying to do the same out here. Everything I said above can be demonstrated through this relationship. When we were in HS, the biggest decision in life was what movie we were going to watch. We graduated and attended schools within the same area. Then you run into situations like money, new passions that the other person does not share, status of you relationship and where it leads, maturity, new friends, etc. All I can say guys is, enjoy your experiences while they last and if/when things end, be thankful for them, and then on to the next one.
I was going to get into the dreadful "Twenty One".. The age most girls want to "explore" who they are (which is great if your a single guy looking to get laid, but terrible if your in a long term relationship). But this was already long enough, and im sure someone else can hit on this if they want.
Joe seems to be the man when it comes to advice, so I cant wait to see what he has to add.
So let me start off with the main point behind this post.. In HS, enjoy yourself. HS is a time where you have little to no responsibility outside of school, and things are much more simple. Enjoy hanging out with your buddies, enjoy the girls, and dont take things to seriously.
When you start dating your first girlfriend or two, its easy to fall head over heels for them. Its an emotion that you are not used to, and it feels great. Truthfully, this probably wont last. Enjoy and learn from the experience. My first HS gf came when I was 15. I thought we would be together forever LOL, that lasted a year, and havent heard from here since.
I guess the easiest way to sum this up, is that who you are in HS is probably not who you will be in the years after. When you graduate, life will take you and everyone you know in different directions, and lead to new experiences. Things that mattered or didnt matter in HS will change. You will find new passions and meet new people, and its hard to be with someone who you feel like your growing apart from whether it be distance, physical, mentally, etc.
I dated a girl from age 16-22. Fell in love, and still in love. Not sure if im in love with who we were at one point, in love with her, in love with the idea of being in love with here, idk. She is on the east coast going to school growing as a person and I am trying to do the same out here. Everything I said above can be demonstrated through this relationship. When we were in HS, the biggest decision in life was what movie we were going to watch. We graduated and attended schools within the same area. Then you run into situations like money, new passions that the other person does not share, status of you relationship and where it leads, maturity, new friends, etc. All I can say guys is, enjoy your experiences while they last and if/when things end, be thankful for them, and then on to the next one.
I was going to get into the dreadful "Twenty One".. The age most girls want to "explore" who they are (which is great if your a single guy looking to get laid, but terrible if your in a long term relationship). But this was already long enough, and im sure someone else can hit on this if they want.
Joe seems to be the man when it comes to advice, so I cant wait to see what he has to add.
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dang, this got dug up out of nowhere lol. well dang where do I start? I guess a little after this thread I went on vacationback to CA and hung out with some friends.. one of which was a girl from middle/high school. we used to flirt back in photo and yearbook and have always been attracted to each other but one of us was always dating someone else. well the night went well, we started talking long distance and after 3-4 months she said she wanted to move out to AZ. I didn't want her to regret her decision and maybe got a little scared so I broke up with her.Stay Based said:Update?
this is where my old relationship played a big role. soon after we broke up, I knew I did the wrong thing.. she was amazing! she could put up with my dirty humor, my taste of music, my parents.. lol. She was the complete opposite of my ex- high school sweetheart. so with a lot of flowers and begging, she took me back and moved out to AZ. I knew she was the one and a few months later we were engaged and then got married in July!
so basically, my long relationship from HS help me see how amazing my current wife is! I was able to learn from that relationship and realize when I found "the one"'. I do still think about my ex but just the typical "how is she doing" type of thing. I'm 26, had the HS sweetheart, did the single thing at a party school, then met the love of my life.. I can't say I'm a genius but if u have any questions I will try and answer..
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When you were in highschool did you notice you attracted more girls around decemeber to march . Christmas/Valentines/Prom time basically.Matt79d said:dang, this got dug up out of nowhere lol. well dang where do I start? I guess a little after this thread I went on vacationback to CA and hung out with some friends.. one of which was a girl from middle/high school. we used to flirt back in photo and yearbook and have always been attracted to each other but one of us was always dating someone else. well the night went well, we started talking long distance and after 3-4 months she said she wanted to move out to AZ. I didn't want her to regret her decision and maybe got a little scared so I broke up with her.
this is where my old relationship played a big role. soon after we broke up, I knew I did the wrong thing.. she was amazing! she could put up with my dirty humor, my taste of music, my parents.. lol. She was the complete opposite of my ex- high school sweetheart. so with a lot of flowers and begging, she took me back and moved out to AZ. I knew she was the one and a few months later we were engaged and then got married in July!
so basically, my long relationship from HS help me see how amazing my current wife is! I was able to learn from that relationship and realize when I found "the one"'. I do still think about my ex but just the typical "how is she doing" type of thing. I'm 26, had the HS sweetheart, did the single thing at a party school, then met the love of my life.. I can't say I'm a genius but if u have any questions I will try and answer..
Umm not so much Christmas.. But I did see the girls all trying to find someone for vday and prom.. But you seem to know, they just dont want to feel left out. I never paid much attention to them because it wasnt genuine.. I used that time to go after the girls I wanted to!
congratsMatt79d said:dang, this got dug up out of nowhere lol. well dang where do I start? I guess a little after this thread I went on vacationback to CA and hung out with some friends.. one of which was a girl from middle/high school. we used to flirt back in photo and yearbook and have always been attracted to each other but one of us was always dating someone else. well the night went well, we started talking long distance and after 3-4 months she said she wanted to move out to AZ. I didn't want her to regret her decision and maybe got a little scared so I broke up with her.
this is where my old relationship played a big role. soon after we broke up, I knew I did the wrong thing.. she was amazing! she could put up with my dirty humor, my taste of music, my parents.. lol. She was the complete opposite of my ex- high school sweetheart. so with a lot of flowers and begging, she took me back and moved out to AZ. I knew she was the one and a few months later we were engaged and then got married in July!
so basically, my long relationship from HS help me see how amazing my current wife is! I was able to learn from that relationship and realize when I found "the one"'. I do still think about my ex but just the typical "how is she doing" type of thing. I'm 26, had the HS sweetheart, did the single thing at a party school, then met the love of my life.. I can't say I'm a genius but if u have any questions I will try and answer..
u think u the shit but boi u cant outfart me
:lol: :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol:2CHINZ said:u think u the shit but boi u cant outfart me
picsMatt79d said:dang, this got dug up out of nowhere lol. well dang where do I start? I guess a little after this thread I went on vacationback to CA and hung out with some friends.. one of which was a girl from middle/high school. we used to flirt back in photo and yearbook and have always been attracted to each other but one of us was always dating someone else. well the night went well, we started talking long distance and after 3-4 months she said she wanted to move out to AZ. I didn't want her to regret her decision and maybe got a little scared so I broke up with her.
this is where my old relationship played a big role. soon after we broke up, I knew I did the wrong thing.. she was amazing! she could put up with my dirty humor, my taste of music, my parents.. lol. She was the complete opposite of my ex- high school sweetheart. so with a lot of flowers and begging, she took me back and moved out to AZ. I knew she was the one and a few months later we were engaged and then got married in July!
so basically, my long relationship from HS help me see how amazing my current wife is! I was able to learn from that relationship and realize when I found "the one"'. I do still think about my ex but just the typical "how is she doing" type of thing. I'm 26, had the HS sweetheart, did the single thing at a party school, then met the love of my life.. I can't say I'm a genius but if u have any questions I will try and answer..
ThanksSpanner said:congrats
That Fred Kid said:Truth to the fullest degree.
OP is dusty. 26. damn. can't see myself 7 years from now tbh. scary.
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