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Honestly guys don't even bother dating in high school, or at least keep it very casual. Once you get to college, it's like girls transformed into women over one summer. Girls change a lot, hell everyone does, in high school. You could fall head over heels for someone one year and the next year they're not even that same person anymore.

My advice: as great as long term relationships are, try not to get too wrapped up in them in high school because there is a much higher risk of setting yourself up for heartbreak.

And no matter what, no matter how amazing she is, no matter how much you love her, do NOT make your life about her. Have your own life outside of her, your own friends, your own personality, or if you don't it will destroy you if she breaks your heart.
 

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Dropout_Bear said:
Honestly guys don't even bother dating in high school, or at least keep it very casual. Once you get to college, it's like girls transformed into women over one summer. Girls change a lot, hell everyone does, in high school. You could fall head over heels for someone one year and the next year they're not even that same person anymore.

My advice: as great as long term relationships are, try not to get too wrapped up in them in high school because there is a much higher risk of setting yourself up for heartbreak.

And no matter what, no matter how amazing she is, no matter how much you love her, do NOT make your life about her. Have your own life outside of her, your own friends, your own personality, or if you don't it will destroy you if she breaks your heart.
BAM! You can close the thread now. Great advice Dropout.
 

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Kale07 said:
Elaborate on what you mean by they transform into women over the summer? Is that they don't do stupid shit anymore when it comes to relationships or what?
Ha no I wish it was that simple, you have to watch out even more for the slutty, trashy ones but also there are some really intelligent, commitment-minded women...

No I was referring to that they literally transform in goddesses over a couple of months, you will be amazed how many gorgeous girls you are seeing in one place.
 

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Dropout_Bear said:
Honestly guys don't even bother dating in high school, or at least keep it very casual. Once you get to college, it's like girls transformed into women over one summer. Girls change a lot, hell everyone does, in high school. You could fall head over heels for someone one year and the next year they're not even that same person anymore.

My advice: as great as long term relationships are, try not to get too wrapped up in them in high school because there is a much higher risk of setting yourself up for heartbreak.

And no matter what, no matter how amazing she is, no matter how much you love her, do NOT make your life about her. Have your own life outside of her, your own friends, your own personality, or if you don't it will destroy you if she breaks your heart.
yah p much /thread
 

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Dropout_Bear said:
No I was referring to that they literally transform in goddesses over a couple of months, you will be amazed how many gorgeous girls you are seeing in one place.
Umm Yeah! Im from San Diego where there are gorgeous girls everywhere.. I just moved to Arizona, near ASU, and I cannot believe how many beautiful girls are out here.. I mean everywhere you look!
 

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Really? I went to ASU for a year and was very unimpressed with the attractiveness of the girls. And I'm from Michigan.
Hmm idk.. I mean I see beautiful girls everywhere I turn. When I get bored I just go to Target and Wal mart and walk around just to see the women :)

But yes, there are a lot of fake boobs/tans.. And there are a lot of meat heads here.. But oh well, im not really into the party/drug scene, so I stay away from them.
 

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I am a senior and have only had one gf in high school. We lasted only like 3-4 months and we started off great and ended horribly. Haven't talked in 8 months now and its extremely awkward to see her at school almost everyday.
 
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