So theres this girl
So theres this one girl i hella like. We've gotten to be really good friends and stuff and i wanna tell her about how i feel about her. She doesnt have a boyfrend right now becuz her last one was a dick and used to be abusive. Not sure what to do.. i dont want her to turn me down cuz then after that shit would be so akward and weird. What do i do? What do i tell her? Should i tell her at all? 
Btw Im 15 bout to be 16 and a sophmore in high school and so is she (just so you can get a feel for my situation)
Btw Im 15 bout to be 16 and a sophmore in high school and so is she (just so you can get a feel for my situation)
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This ain't a bad strategy. Wish it worked more often for me, but hey... That's why I'm me, and you're you, A3K. 
Kale07 said:Before I told you only tell her If your ready to deal with the possibility of you two never being the same again if it ends badly. I stand by that but in addition if you REALLY like her like what a previous poster said just trying hanging out with her only go to the movies go eat, do homework or whatever after spending time with her one on one. During these one on one sessions make her have fun to the point where she'll start asking you for ya'll to go out. This is when you tell her how you feel about her. Its going to be a process dont just except it to happen in a day or a week take time and make it happen. If this girl is worth it you wanna make it happen right so be patient and try hard but not too hard or be obvious for some reason girl dont like guys who try hard for some reason
how you discerned that with the scant details that were given is beyond me.
joe said:I think she may have liked you, but I think you missed your window
i just used scant in a sentence....my vocab game has just been so preternatural lately. must be school or something. just on point with it...
you're incongruous
ktothe2 said:
i wouldn't say incongruous, more like ambidexterous
So doyou actually hang out with this girl outside of school? If not, start there. When you have her alone you'll be able to easily tell if she likes you or not. If it still seems like you're in the friend zone, ignore her for a while. If she likes you she'll realize she misses you and then SHE'LL be the one that wants to go out. It will be blatantly obvious. And that's where you make your move.
A big tip for dealing with any girl: never appear to want her more than she wants you. You'll lose her everytime. If you feel yourself coming onto her too strong, back off and see what she does
let us know what happens with the bitch
A big tip for dealing with any girl: never appear to want her more than she wants you. You'll lose her everytime. If you feel yourself coming onto her too strong, back off and see what she does
let us know what happens with the bitch
I lirl'ed. "Coldplay the Gawd"... LOOOOOOOOB!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Kale07 said:
Thats good advice only thing is she live sorta far and also her parents dont let her out much but i still talk to her on myspace alot and shit
and yea thats what i was thinkin dont be so forceful just ignore her sorta and see what she does
cuz tbh the more you chase a girl the more she runs
and yea thats what i was thinkin dont be so forceful just ignore her sorta and see what she does
cuz tbh the more you chase a girl the more she runs
bp9129 said:
well i was nervous but more then that i didnt think it would be right cuz she had a boyfrend and he was abusive and she was trying to break it off with him and get over all that so wouldnt be good time to make move i thought so didnt
could go either way imo
joe said:
an automatic way to get out of the friend zone is to
talk about sexual things with her.lol.
dont listen to her vent.
NEVER cuddle with her.
make flirting with her a priority
and in time ull see she'll develop feelings that aren't friendly.
talk about sexual things with her.lol.
dont listen to her vent.
NEVER cuddle with her.
make flirting with her a priority
and in time ull see she'll develop feelings that aren't friendly.
bp9129 said:
Its either you get her or dont be friends anymore, If your her friend just because you like her, ask her out because if you know she doesnt like you then you probally wouldnt want to be her friend.
Yea well we're hella close and i wanna move outta the "frend zone" but idk if she wants to do the same or if she just wants to be frends
Ask her out. You're 15, you've got nothing to lose. If she says no, move on. It's better than never knowing
Phenomena said:
Lol sorry but im shy with girls
joe said:Yo you're still going in this thread?! Ask the damn woman already you lame! You're stressing me out!
op just tell her
Do it tomorrow you're running out of time fam
Do it tomorrow you're running out of time fam
*two years later*
Leekers said:
so what happend opAndre3k said:
FUCK
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