[Andre3k]

yea exactly how i feel but i guess i gotta just let it be

 

[EmKay]

I mean maybe itll be different for you but I HIGHLY doubt it
Shits painful i know man but tough it out and itll make a much stronger person when the next heartbreak comes along

 

[Mase]

Tell her my boy! Don't regret never saying anything. That's just my opinion.

 

[Andre3k]

Tell her my boy! Don't regret never saying anything. That's just my opinion.

part of me is sayin that too but meh idk

 

[JT]

part of me is sayin that too but meh idk

Ask her out, if she says no make it out to be a joke.

 

[Black Smith]

Ugh, you're in the friend zone.    I hate that. 

But you should definitely go for it, man.  I think it's best to take an opportunity of this potential when it shows up, for or better or for worse. 

If you never try, you'll never know.

 

[Andre3k]

Ugh, you're in the friend zone.    I hate that. 

But you should definitely go for it, man.  I think it's best to take an opportunity of this potential when it shows up, for or better or for worse. 

If you never try, you'll never know.

Coldplay you think it's possible to get out of the frend zone? cuz everyone else mostly said no

 

[Black Smith]

Coldplay you think it's possible to get out of the frend zone? cuz everyone else mostly said no

I tried.  God knows I tried.  And it worked for a while, it really did.  But, after a month, I got sooo much hate for dating an intelligent, attractive white girl from my traditional all-black community (I went to a 95% white high school and I'm part white myself, so I never gave it second thought. )... So I, much to my regret, broke it off with her.   This was back during the tail-end of my junior year, and she hated me for a good while until maybe the end of the first semester of my senior.  I matured a lot during that time and began to care less and less of public perception, so I asked for her forgiveness and she forgave me wholeheartedly at that time.  She said she still considers me a friend.  I miss her.  :-/  But I doubt we'll ever be as close as we once were.

Does that answer your question any? 

 

[Andre3k]

im sorry and sorta
my situation is diff i just dont know if she likes me or not.. i dont wanna ruin our frendship or be turned down but i hella like her

 

[WakeUpMr.West]

just get someone to ask if she likes you first

 

[Andre3k]

Does she send you any kind of signals?

well we're close frends idk

 

[Black Smith]

im sorry and sorta
my situation is diff i just dont know if she likes me or not.. i dont wanna ruin our frendship or be turned down but i hella like her

I had that same situation my junior year as well.  Tried to rebound after this hella-horrible situation I just described... I got dropped immediately---gently, though---but we're still very good friends.  I might just be godfather of her child. 

A good friendship can still be maintained even after you get dropped, if that helps you any. 

 

[RelaxRelapse]

well we're close frends idk

Your friend zoned..

 

[Black Smith]

Like, does she flirt with you? Laugh at everything you say? Playfully touch you?

Usually, if a girl likes you,it will be obvious. That's why I am nervous about you talking to her.

THIS happened to me!!!!!!!!!!!  And I still got dropped. 

 

[Black Smith]

But you got close to her temporarily right? In that case, you weren't in the friend zone, she just didn't make up her mind/was fucking with you. There's a difference between that and a girl never seeing you in "that way", which is usually what the friend zone is, hence why people rarely get out of it.

She made up her mind, all right.  She decided to go back to her ex, who cheated on her no less than three times before they decided to marry.

 

[Black Smith]

Turrible. Sorry to hear that. You were never in the real friend zone though. The real "friend zone" is when a girl has no romantic interest in you whatsoever(and this won't change),and really just likes you as a friend. I think that's what we have here with Andre3k.

Oh, well, yeah...that's happened to me, too.  But we're not friends anymore.  I got tired of the playing. 

 

[Andre3k]

Like, does she flirt with you? Laugh at everything you say? Playfully touch you?

Usually, if a girl likes you,it will be obvious. That's why I am nervous about you talking to her.

sorta kinda idk cuz well when we met and first became good frends i liked her but never even thought of sayin nothin cuz she was goin thru rough times cuz of her abusive boyfrend.. now they broken up been a while too so idk

 

[drop.out]

send that bitch a picture of your hey roblem?:

naaa but seriously, i find that if you become friends with a chick, you normally can't be her boyfriend as well after a certain period of time. but hey, every case is subjective, so just do little things, see if she responds when you flirt, etc etc, and yeah, bang that chick nahmean?

 

[Vegeta]

dont let anyone tell you that you missed your chance

just keep the lil flirting up and occasionally ask her for lunch etc

you still got it brah....just believe in yourself...

 

[Andre3k]

Thanks guys yea i know it aint gonna happen overnite i put in work (;