She might think your gay, and vents her feelings to you....
So theres this girl
So theres this one girl i hella like. We've gotten to be really good friends and stuff and i wanna tell her about how i feel about her. She doesnt have a boyfrend right now becuz her last one was a dick and used to be abusive. Not sure what to do.. i dont want her to turn me down cuz then after that shit would be so akward and weird. What do i do? What do i tell her? Should i tell her at all? 
Btw Im 15 bout to be 16 and a sophmore in high school and so is she (just so you can get a feel for my situation)
Btw Im 15 bout to be 16 and a sophmore in high school and so is she (just so you can get a feel for my situation)
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No isnt negative i understand all i want is realness else i wouldnt askKale07 said:Its almost impossible to get out the friend zone and if you do tellin her might ruin the friendship if she doesnt like you. If she does then if you do break up eventually it will ruin the friendship most likely.
my two cents might sound negative but I'm trying to be real with you
I think most people would agree that they'd regret doing something than regret not doing something. So here is what you do:
You want to avoid being awkward at all costs. Because of this, no one asks her if she likes you. Not you or any of your friends. Asking her that makes your intentions clear and it's a high risk/reward play.
What you do is ask her out casually. A friendly outing just the two of you. Like a movie or the mall, nothing that screams "I like you".
Girls are far more emotional than guys. Spending some alone time together will make her feel more comfortable with you and that could lead to her developing feelings for you.
After this goes on for a little bit, you want to make sure the touch barrier is broken. Be casual like you are with your family and friends. Don't act like touching her means something. That way she won't feel weird if the moment comes where you can make a move. She already knows that you care about her because you're friends so you want to make sure that she knows you're interested in who she is and not what she has to offer.
And the best part about this strategy is that if she doesn't reciprocate interest or if things go wrong somewhere along the line, you can play it off as just being a friend
You want to avoid being awkward at all costs. Because of this, no one asks her if she likes you. Not you or any of your friends. Asking her that makes your intentions clear and it's a high risk/reward play.
What you do is ask her out casually. A friendly outing just the two of you. Like a movie or the mall, nothing that screams "I like you".
Girls are far more emotional than guys. Spending some alone time together will make her feel more comfortable with you and that could lead to her developing feelings for you.
After this goes on for a little bit, you want to make sure the touch barrier is broken. Be casual like you are with your family and friends. Don't act like touching her means something. That way she won't feel weird if the moment comes where you can make a move. She already knows that you care about her because you're friends so you want to make sure that she knows you're interested in who she is and not what she has to offer.
And the best part about this strategy is that if she doesn't reciprocate interest or if things go wrong somewhere along the line, you can play it off as just being a friend
from what you guys have told me I think ima just let it be and not say nothin but apart of me is like fuk it just tell whats worse that could happen
I know its eating at you and there are times where your probably like "Man i just just fuckin do it cause you never know"Andre3k said:from what you guys have told me I think ima just let it be and not say nothin but apart of me is like fuk it just tell whats worse that could happen
But I know and im telling you not too trust me let it die
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