[Aquemini]

Okay well my friend has 3 possession of marijuana tickets and yeah i don't think weed is a big deal but after you get caught 3 times with it, it becomes a big deal. He had to go to a rehabilitation clinic for 30'days after his third ticket and he told me he was done after he got out. He lied tho. Found out he's still doing it. Should I tell his parents to get him real help or just say fuck you and let him do him?

 

[TheWolvesDen]

Okay well my friend has 3 possession of marijuana tickets and yeah i don't think weed is a big deal but after you get caught 3 times with it, it becomes a big deal. He had to go to a rehabilitation clinic for 30'days after his third ticket and he told me he was done after he got out. He lied tho. Found out he's still doing it. Should I tell his parents to get him real help or just say fuck you and let him do him?

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I would love to say, tell the parents, its the most noble and thoughtful thing to do...
But in terms of forever losing trust of that friend? I can't wholeheartedly say I would

 

[S.Z.]

don't tell his parents tbh

 

[Aquemini]

His dad has Bailed him out of all his fuck ups (well conncted). I just don't want him in jail.

 

[TheWolvesDen]

His dad has Bailed him out of all his fuck ups (well conncted). I just don't want him in jail.

Sounds like my god bro a bit. I have come a conclusion that even me saying anything, he will be on his road. I honestly may say that he has to make mistakes and grow from it

 

[Aquemini]

So hard tho. He's been my best friend for years. But I guess I gotta let him do him

 

[TheWolvesDen]

So hard tho. He's been my best friend for years. But I guess I gotta let him do him

I would say, have a mini intervention with you and one of his other close fam type friends. See if he wants to. Quite often oen wants to change but struggles because of daily internal battle ( and believe that once this battle starts that they will inevitably cave, and thus self fullfillment)

 

[Mojo]

Talk to him. Tell him, he needs to stop before stuff gets worse. Even if he could just quit for awhile and just lay low.

 

[Aquemini]

I talked to him. He just attacks me like im tryin to ruin his life

 

[TheWolvesDen]

I talked to him. He just attacks me like im tryin to ruin his life

I think then you might need to let him on his own then... sad to say