Place to talk about the root of life.
Forreal. I ran from this shit for so long, even after I got into this relationship with this girl who did nothing but amaze me through the course of it, and continued to run. Then when I finally put my faith in it shit folded on me like a venice fly trap.Ryanscary said:it draws you in only to shit all over you
Very true, but even when you do get it right, you have to rely on the other to do the same thing, which more times than less, never happens. Then you find yourself in the shit position of love: being in love with what you can't have anymore.dc... said:If you get it right though, LOVE>Anything else.
Ture, but when you get a mutural love (aka the one) love can help you through anything.BubblegumWay said:Very true, but even when you do get it right, you have to rely on the other to do the same thing, which more times than less, never happens. Then you find yourself in the shit position of love: being in love with what you can't have anymore.
But the thing is, even if it is mutual, sometimes certain things happen that pull said "ones" apart. And despite whether or not fate will bring you two together, you still have to put up with all of the bullshit and depression that goes in between that, but I know what you're trying to get across. Believe me.dc... said:Ture, but when you get a mutural love (aka the one) love can help you through anything.
It all comes down to having the right one.
And thats why its so important to work at it.BubblegumWay said:But the thing is, even if it is mutual, sometimes certain things happen that pull said "ones" apart. And despite whether or not fate will bring you two together, you still have to put up with all of the bullshit and depression that goes in between that, but I know what you're trying to get across. Believe me.
That's exactly where I'm at with my girl right now. She put up with so much shit over the 3 years that we were together, got me through my dark days and helped me restore my life. She's the only person who could ever look into me and see every little crack and imperfection and ignore them. As I did the same for her. A few months back, a few of my fuck ups from the past resurfaced and she started to distance herself from me. Then I start hearing whispers that she's talking to some other dude behind my back, and then all of this shit started happening (the same dude getting her a job, her talking about him all the time, not coming around as much anymore) and I just snapped and pushed her away completely straight into this dudes arms. Three days before I was going to propose to her too.dc... said:And thats why its so important to work at it.
If you really love someone you will be able to do and put up with anything for someone, and hopefully they can do the same for you.
Me and my girl went through something recently (i was stupid and made a mistake) and we took a while to get past it, but we are strong now and thats because we didnt give up and we made it work.
Basically, what happened, she's looking at as something completely different. I held in all of the shit about her talking to dude and didn't say anything for so long because I knew we were at a rough spot and figured it would only make things worse. So, after holding it in for so long, I had enough and needed to know. Saw she had a text while she was sleeping, read it, from this dude. Said something along the lines of, "sorry I fell asleep on you again baby. We'll talk all night long tomorrow".dc... said:You say you snapped, did you do her wrong?
Because if you really hurt her its gona take a while before she can trust you again.
It is, but I'm willing to take all of the blame because most of it either was caused by or stemmed from me.dc... said:But it sounds like it was a bit of wrong on both ends.
That's what I tried telling her. I'm like, "we've been with each other every day and every night for 3 years straight, I was ready to give you a ring. How can you expect me to just move on and be okay with this?" And the fact that even after she started dating this dude the second we broke up, I'm still standing here waiting for her. And she knows that.dc... said:After 3 years you cant just 'move on'.
All I can say is dont give up to early and end up regretting it.
If you are speaking and making some progress(even if its small) then there is still hope.
She's not, though. She's putting our relationship in the hands of "fate", saying that if fate makes our paths cross again, she won't be able to deny our love anymore. The fuck is that shit? Sometimes "fate" is someone not being able to let go and who is willing to do anything to get you back, including sacrifice his own happiness to assure yours. Plus, I'm NEVER going to run into her 'cause she's avoiding any places I would and I'm pretty much doing the same, for her sake.dc... said:As long as she is giving you a chance you gotta take it.