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Is Discussing going steady with her okay?
Only a few people here know the full story so I won't even go into it really. But I've been talking to this girl for quite a while now. Last night we went out together. I dunno if I would rly call it a date cuz we went to a Concert of a mutual friend.. So some of our other friends were there too so it was pretty casual but we did get alot of time alone just to talk... She's pretty awesome 
. Usually it's a bit awkward to be with her in person but I guess we both just stopped worrying about whatever and it was great to be with her. I really like her.
I already know her quite well, but now I'm wondering if it would be weird to bring up the possibility of going into a relationship with her. She's never had a BF before and Ive never been in a serious relationship before but she's already far better than all of those tbh. Im really not sure if speaking explicitly to her about it might be too awkward tho... Not right now, after we go out a few more times
. Usually it's a bit awkward to be with her in person but I guess we both just stopped worrying about whatever and it was great to be with her. I really like her.I already know her quite well, but now I'm wondering if it would be weird to bring up the possibility of going into a relationship with her. She's never had a BF before and Ive never been in a serious relationship before but she's already far better than all of those tbh. Im really not sure if speaking explicitly to her about it might be too awkward tho... Not right now, after we go out a few more times
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It seems like you're handling this quite well. I think you're right in waiting a bit until you make a move. Just hang out and try to gauge how she is feeling. I think your respective lack of experiences are something that will come up, and it will frame the beginning of a prospective relationship. I hope it works out for the both of you .
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I'm in the EXACT same situation as you, like exact, even down to the here never having a BF and me never being in a serious relationship. Oh, but minus the concert of a mutual friend part ofcSecrecy said:Only a few people here know the full story so I won't even go into it really. But I've been talking to this girl for quite a while now. Last night we went out together. I dunno if I would rly call it a date cuz we went to a Concert of a mutual friend.. So some of our other friends were there too so it was pretty casual but we did get alot of time alone just to talk... She's pretty awesome
I already know her quite well, but now I'm wondering if it would be weird to bring up the possibility of going into a relationship with her. She's never had a BF before and Ive never been in a serious relationship before but she's already far better than all of those tbh. Im really not sure if speaking explicitly to her about it might be too awkward tho... Not right now, after we go out a few more times
thanksSignature Ligature said:It seems like you're handling this quite well. I think you're right in waiting a bit until you make a move. Just hang out and try to gauge how she is feeling. I think your respective iack of experiences are something that will come up, and it will frame the beginning of a prospective relationship. I hope it works out for the both of you
. What i really wanna know is if it would be fine to have a little discussion with her about going into an exclusive relationship, so she knows how serious I am before I go out and ask her to be my girlfriend
Keep your swag on 
I think so. Almost every relationship has that conversation. It's different for every two people, but yes, the conversation needs to happen.Secrecy said:thanks
Some people go the casual, jokey route when having 'the talk'. Some people go the more serious route. It all depends on what method you feel would be the most comfortable way to approach the subject with her
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Yeah man thanks. I'll find a way. It'll probably be more serious tho.. I can't rly predict right now obviously but in timeSignature Ligature said:Some people go the casual, jokey route when having 'the talk'. Some people go the more serious route. It all depends on what method you feel would be the most comfortable way to approach the subject with her
Signature Ligature said:It seems like you're handling this quite well. I think you're right in waiting a bit until you make a move. Just hang out and try to gauge how she is feeling. I think your respective iack of experiences are something that will come up, and it will frame the beginning of a prospective relationship. I hope it works out for the both of you
As long as you don't use the phrase 'going steady' hahahaha
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