I went through a very similar situation recently. My ex and I had hit a rough patch that lasted about two months. Right when things started to look up and it felt like we were finally moving back to where we once stood, I started to hear through the grapevine that she was talking to some dude behind my back. Didn't say anything. I trusted her. Gave her the benefit of the doubt. Next thing I know, she's getting a job with dude and talking about dude all the time. Still didn't say anything directly about it during all of this, although, I hinted at it. This was all too much and I needed to know, since, while I trusted her, my heart and gut were telling me I shouldn't.
Ended up reading a text from dude that pretty much proved everything to be true. Big blow out followed. I kicked her out (but didn't go through with it, if that makes any sense

). Week later, she leaves me. Two days later, find out she's dating the dude.
If I've learned anything through that shit, it's this: believe your heart and your gut because, more than likely, she's a lying, cheating whore.
