How to deal with loneliness?

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romyrider

Discussion Starter · Aug 10, 2011

I live in Germany but I'm currently in Ibiza for 5 months. I had my mom staying at my place for a month (she broke her leg so she had to stay this long), my best friend came over for 1 week and my bro was staying for 3 weeks but today he is leaving...

I got friends here but nothing real, Imma be stayin alone in my apartment now, what the hell how will I survive this.
Seriously I dont wanna spend all my time on KTT, just the thought of it makes me wanna kill myself (dont worry this is not a suicidal thread).

I have lots of things I can do here, but drinking and partying by my own not only sounds depressing, it is hella depressing...
Fuck I miss my bro already and he is still here...

Not bringing him to the airport tbh, I dont wanna start crying on my way back.. (inb4OPisafaggot)

So, how to deal with lonelinsess

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BxD24

· #2 · Aug 10, 2011

Dude your in Ibiza! I know you said you dont wanna party, but you are in the party capital of the world! I dont know if your into EDM and all but hit up the clubs, Above and Beyond, Anjunabeats are there all month to close off the season. That type of music really uplifts your mood and the environment will probably be amazing that you wont feel very lonely.

kanyeismyhomeboy

· #3 · Aug 10, 2011

get a hookah

iYeezy

· #4 · Aug 10, 2011

Find a girl? :dno:

:dno:

Just chill on a beach or something, find something else to do, there's more to Ibiza than clubs

10558

· #5 · Aug 10, 2011

Try to meet people and don't lose communication with your friends. Listen to Bob Dylan, Leonard Cohen and other lonely music if you want to get emotional.

I'm sorry you're lonely... it'll get better.

J3FFR3Y

· #6 · Aug 10, 2011

Homeboy said:
get a hookah

I wouldnt like to smoke by myself tbh lol

kanyeismyhomeboy

· #7 · Aug 10, 2011

J3FFR3Y said:
I wouldnt like to smoke by myself tbh lol

lol if i had my own place id smoke hookah everynight

J3FFR3Y

· #8 · Aug 10, 2011

Homeboy said:
lol if i had my own place id smoke hookah everynight

I want one but not to smoke by myself lol shit would suck tbh

Btw it gets old

J3FFR3Y

· #9 · Aug 10, 2011

Work out, find a job if you dont have one, just pretty much keep yourself busy but try to make friends & shit & build relationships then you wont be so lonely. Might take a while tho lol

romyrider

Discussion Starter · #10 · Aug 10, 2011

J3FFR3Y said:
Work out, find a job if you dont have one, just pretty much keep yourself busy but try to make friends & shit & build relationships then you wont be so lonely. Might take a while tho lol

yea i had a job, but i kinda lost it, another big story lol

i actually like to party, but i dont take any drugs ok? so if i dont go with my friends and try to meet my "friends" at the party (wich will be totally fucked up on everything, literally EVERYTHING) I wont like, those ppl are just to trashy..

romyrider

Discussion Starter · #11 · Aug 10, 2011

ecrbubs said:
Try to meet people and don't lose communication with your friends

I kinda know every single person on this island. but they not real friends u know + they always on drugs and shit, im a heavy drinker but i pass on drugs.

romyrider

Discussion Starter · #12 · Aug 10, 2011

iYeezy said:
Find a girl?

Just chill on a beach or something, find something else to do, there's more to Ibiza than clubs

yea i kinda got a girl here but she too easy going, she comes and goes when she pleases, i know thats pretty cool cause she smokin but its also headcrackin...

romyrider

Discussion Starter · #13 · Aug 10, 2011

BxD said:
Dude your in Ibiza! I know you said you dont wanna party, but you are in the party capital of the world!

i do wanna party, but with some ppl i connect, like a real friend. ive been to every club here in ibiza since years, but now it just got kinda dull and its not the same, plus the depression of being totally alone on fucking IBIZA fuckin

Masterace

· #14 · Aug 10, 2011

romyrider said:
I kinda know every single person on this island. but they not real friends u know + they always on drugs and shit, im a heavy drinker but i pass on drugs.

alcohol is a drug tho

romyrider

Discussion Starter · #15 · Aug 10, 2011

Masterace said:
alcohol is a drug tho

call me a hypocrit then, but i wont do any drugs besided alcohol :kanyshrug:

heartofalion

· #16 · Aug 10, 2011

romyrider said:
Not bringing him to the airport tbh, I dont wanna start crying on my way back.. (inb4OPisafaggot)

everything you said about me being gay is now invalid :hah:

:hah:

just hang in there bro, im trying to convince my friends to go to ibiza next month. i brought it up to them yesterday, will keep bringing it up. hopefully we end up going there and meet up with you :slick:

:slick:

romyrider

Discussion Starter · #17 · Aug 10, 2011

heartofalion said:
everything you said about me being gay is now invalid

just hang in there bro, im trying to convince my friends to go to ibiza next month. i brought it up to them yesterday, will keep bringing it up. hopefully we end up going there and meet up with you

lol i put him in the cab and teared up a bit, but this aint even near as u shaving ur legs, sorry

heartofalion

· #18 · Aug 10, 2011

romyrider said:
lol i put him in the cab and teared up a bit, but this aint even near as u shaving ur legs, sorry

***** u gay

romyrider

Discussion Starter · #19 · Aug 10, 2011

heartofalion said:
***** u gay

cmon dont say dat now, im in a critical state, might as well just start drinking alone...

heartofalion

· #20 · Aug 10, 2011

romyrider said:
cmon dont say dat now, im in a critical state, might as well just start drinking alone...

nah fuck dat. just listen to some kid cudi or the postal service tbh. always cheers me up

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