Dr jo said:
good luck fam. Just trying to get this straight though. so in the example H-O-H we are using four electrons correct? But each hydrogen has 2 electrons and oxygen has 4?
Additionally, can you help me understand the octet rule? sorry for bothering you so much
Well ok think of it this way. Every atom has a ring around it right? Well in each atoms rings they want to have 8 atoms, which we call
valence electrons. Every atom wants to have eight of these in their rings because it makes the atoms stable and "full' in a sense. Thus you have the octet rule. Hydrogen is an exception to this rule because it only wants 2 valence electrons, because it's a puny ass bitch. Basically if you look at the periodic table and go down the rows, the atoms in row 1 have 1 atom to give (ex Sodium & Lithium), whereas atoms like carbon have 4 to give. The
noble gases at the end of the row (ex. Neon or Argon) are balling out because they have the full eight, they're good. The other atoms want to be like the noble gases and have eight, so they share to make bonds. we'll break down H20 as an example
H <--An H Atom, which only carries 1 valence electron and only has the potential to hold one more.
- <-- A Bond, which represents 2 electrons being
shared. One from one atom and the other from another.
O<-- An Oxygen Atom which only carries 6 Valence Electrons. It wants two more.
So when you write H-O-H, you're saying that all the atoms are complete and thus are full. Oxygen has the full 8 it needs to be full and Hydrogen has the 2 it needs.
Hope this helps.