when someone that ur bein nice with (in this case a girl) treating her good and stuff, and she just be an asshole to u. It kinda reminds me of that parody song Nice guys. So I finally think is true, sometimes being nice is good but most of the times it just sucks. I remember that with my ex when I was nice she used to give me them attitude and non-sense fights and just play with me, but then if I was an asshole with her she would start appreciate me more bein nice. But after a while she started with the attitude and all that stuff that I hate. I ended the relationship with her cause I wanted some peace in my life and I was too young to be fighting almost everyday. But that doesn't matter it was just an example of bein nice vs an asshole with woman. So ktt am I the only one with this problem? This can also apply with some friends too not only woman. Btw I just wanted to vent this out I'm so tired of being nice with people and when they see that ur mad they just stop the bs and act like they were doing nothing wrong. And could it also be that I'm poorly choosing the people that I'm with?
Btw I also consider me being sometimes bad but common some ppl just take too far