How is your social life? This is honestly the source of all my problems, I have no close friends. Has caused me to fail classes, depression and anxiety. I'm thinking about moving to a new city, but I'm terrified of being aloneThe Man said:I was kinda the same way at 22 but now at 26 I have a grea job in a new state, a great new car and pretty content with everything. Just work hard and you'll be rewarded.
ScottT said:Quit moping. quit feeling sorry for yourself. If you have depression and anxiety, it fucking sucks. But that's the cards you've been dealt, now play them the best you can. You are 21. You have a whole life in front of you
Wtf op you're young as fuck. You're not a lost cause, you're just doing everything all wrong. When you are depressed you need to move closer and closer to your family because they are the only people who will go out of their way to help you get back on your feet. Don't even feel self concious about asking them for help, that's what family is for.TheNotorious said:Life past me. I faded into obscurity and now I have nothing. No girl, no friends, no job, no money all at the age of 21. [...] I am further and further away from my family because of my depression and anxiety. [...] I'm too old.
Well look at this way. If you truly feel alone now then what's the harm in moving and being alone?TheNotorious said:How is your social life? This is honestly the source of all my problems, I have no close friends. Has caused me to fail classes, depression and anxiety. I'm thinking about moving to a new city, but I'm terrified of being alone
TheNotorious said:Listen... my advice to anybody 17-19 is that those years are CRITICAL for your life, keep ppl around you. Stay in touch. Don't be like me, I wish I could go back. Once you hit your 20s, it's really hard to recover from the loss of time. I'm too old.
Whatever you do, don't be like me. Don't allow yourself to fade into obscurity,