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Serious topic here.
As a 19 year old black guy, I'm attracted to all women. The majority of my family has dated outside their race. Two out of the six of my uncles are married to South Americans (Salvadorean and Brazilian). And another one loves white women.
I often get bashed for liking white girls by co-workers, my Mom, and few others here and there. My white friends even stopped talking to me when they found out I was seeing a white a girl a couple months ago. (Yeah, pretty fucked up.)
But here is where I am different from most. I'm not one of those black guys that LOOKS FOR white girls. I don't even go for white girls that LOOK FOR black guys. I don't like that mindset. If I date a white girl, I'm usually the first black guy they've dated. Those are HARD to find.
Now for my question...
Why is it that most white girls that LOOK FOR black guys usually fall under these categories...
Overweight
Broken relationship with their Father
Trashy
Foreign toy
Ugly
or some other general low self-esteem problem that a respectable white man wouldn't date.
Even black celebs who are married to white women. Most of their wives fall under that category.
Seal, Dennis Rodman, Tiger Woods, Taye Diggs, Michael Jackson, Quincy Jones, Darius Rucker, Ahmad Rashad.
Just to name a few.
I'm not saying this is ALWAYS the matter, I just see it alot. I Don't mean to offend anyone
Discuss...
As a 19 year old black guy, I'm attracted to all women. The majority of my family has dated outside their race. Two out of the six of my uncles are married to South Americans (Salvadorean and Brazilian). And another one loves white women.
I often get bashed for liking white girls by co-workers, my Mom, and few others here and there. My white friends even stopped talking to me when they found out I was seeing a white a girl a couple months ago. (Yeah, pretty fucked up.)
But here is where I am different from most. I'm not one of those black guys that LOOKS FOR white girls. I don't even go for white girls that LOOK FOR black guys. I don't like that mindset. If I date a white girl, I'm usually the first black guy they've dated. Those are HARD to find.
Now for my question...
Why is it that most white girls that LOOK FOR black guys usually fall under these categories...
Overweight
Broken relationship with their Father
Trashy
Foreign toy
Ugly
or some other general low self-esteem problem that a respectable white man wouldn't date.
Even black celebs who are married to white women. Most of their wives fall under that category.
Seal, Dennis Rodman, Tiger Woods, Taye Diggs, Michael Jackson, Quincy Jones, Darius Rucker, Ahmad Rashad.
Just to name a few.
I'm not saying this is ALWAYS the matter, I just see it alot. I Don't mean to offend anyone
Discuss...
