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So me and this girl had been going out for about 3 months but we had been "talking" for like 6 months. Everything seemed to be going fine, well at least to me, besides some bad days, but nothings gonna be perfect. Anyways, we just met up and she told me the weirdest thing. Like, she said she likes me one day then the next day she doesn't and it didn't feel like we were in a relationship. She also told me her last relationship was ruined because of the same thing, but she continued with him for a year and felt wishy washy with her feelings so she felt bad the whole time. Basically she doesn't want to be in a relationship because it always feels like that, and i asked her to wait it out a little more, but it makes sense for her not to be in a relationship, as hard as it is for me to admit it.
Now, is it just me, or does that seem kind of a lame excuse though? She kept saying that it wasn't she didn't want to be with me but just a relationship in general. I don't buy it though tbh...
And also should i still talk to her? I mean it was only 3 months and i developed relatively strong feelings for her, but we had a great friendship before and i don't want her out of my life, and she said the same. It's not like she's a bitch...but is that healthy to still hang around someone you have strong feelings for?
Help :/
Now, is it just me, or does that seem kind of a lame excuse though? She kept saying that it wasn't she didn't want to be with me but just a relationship in general. I don't buy it though tbh...
And also should i still talk to her? I mean it was only 3 months and i developed relatively strong feelings for her, but we had a great friendship before and i don't want her out of my life, and she said the same. It's not like she's a bitch...but is that healthy to still hang around someone you have strong feelings for?
Help :/