[Undergrad]

He's 90 years old and the doctors said there is nothing else they can do because of the blood cloth in his brain so it's making him stop breathing every few minutes. It's depressing as fuck, he haven't seen me since I was 5 (I'm 19 now) he was unresponsive all day but when I walked in he opened his eyes and started crying. No one in my family around me has died so this is scary as fuck to see.

 

[sloop]

90 years is a long time though, im sure he had a nice long life

 

[MM]

I'm sorry OP. Losing a loved one is tough. Btw your cousin is old. I mean much older than you.

 

[Undergrad]

90 years is a long time though, im sure he had a nice long life

Yeah, he done a lot in his life, he was in WWII , nicest guy you will ever meet.

 

[carlos.]

You have a 90 year old cousin

But really sorry for your cousin. He's lived a long life though.

 

[Shamalamadingdong1]

That's fucking terrifying.

 

[Stan Smith]

I'm glad you have fond memories of him. I hope this isn't stressing you out either, you gotta be strong.

 

[NewGod]

You should be happy for him man. He gets to get away from all the troubles of this world and gets to see an entirely new world where he can truly be free.

 

[Undergrad]

He lived a long life but he doesn't want to go yet that's why he was crying, his wife is right beside him just staring him in the eye for like 5 hours now, I don't cry but this is emtional as hell

 

[Reindeer of the Roc]

Damn man.

 

[Adaniel]

We with you fam ! Stay strong and only happy thoughts with yo cuz

 

[Wiz CuDi]

Stay up fam. 

 

[Undergrad]

This is making me have a new outlook on life like damn that's gonna be me in the hospital bed one day...

 

[Django]

He lived a long life but he doesn't want to go yet that's why he was crying, his wife is right beside him just staring him in the eye for like 5 hours now, I don't cry but this is emtional as hell

Wonder if they are a duprass

 

[shawts]

Damn *****

 

[Flood]

my grandma died at 70 a few days before New Years. shit sucks man. but she wanted to go which can make it harder tbh. happy thoughts and celebration of their life is the way.

 

[Undergrad]

It's like he trying to tell me something but he can't talk because the stroke he just had paralyzed his right side including his brain so he's spelling out words in the air with his fingers like "love"

 

[D4rko]

People say it gets easier as time goes by but it really doesnt. You just gotta find ways to deal with your loss. Good luck though fam

 

[Flood]

It's like he trying to tell me something but he can't talk because the stroke he just had paralyzed his right side including his brain so he's spelling out words in the air with his fingers like "love"

my suggestion would be to bring in stuff from your childhood (bunch of old pictures would be good for example) or something to make him feel not as depressed.

 

[THE LEGENDARY XXX]

prayers for you op

People say it gets easier as time goes by but it really doesnt. You just gotta find ways to deal with your loss. Good luck though fam