Where to start? You had unprotected sex with a man you CLEARLY didn't know well enough, you seem ill tempered so clearly you're not an awesome girlfriend, especially if he's out with other women as you say, you're not married to him and obviously want to "break up" with him YET you say he's throwing away his family cause he's with other women? You aren't part of his family though, you were never his wife, you were his girlfriend. I would take your side if you were actually married to him, THEN he'd be wrong because he had a bigger responsibility but with the current situation, neither of you are in the right.
We've been together for 3 years. We are basically married just not on paper. So if u have a gf u think it's ok to cheat on her? And she's not allowed to get mad about it? Get real. N I know him I just didn't know about his Internet persona. As far as me not wanting to marry him, I DID. I never told him no. The only reason we weren't married was bc we didn't have the extra $$ to spend on everything bc my house burnt to nothing and I wanted it to be nice not some bck yard redneck wedding. We consider each other family bc we have a child and new responsibilities. Just bc ur not married doesn't mean u have a free pass to do as u please. I'm not I'll tempered just hate when ppl try to say I'm in the wrong about something I'm clearly not wrong about.