Kanye To The: Kanye West

Sup fam, I don't make threads in L&A often, but this time I need some help.

Been with this chick for about three months, started talking on Twitter, she lives an hour from me, she came onto me but I started really liking her after texts, calls/dates.

I met her parents on our first date, we ****ed on the first date in my car, same thing for the second date, made out on our 3rd on a drive in and ****ed in my room on our 5th because my house was empty.

Last week was our 5th date, she met my parents (I rarely introduce girls to my parents because usually they're not that serious of relationships, I felt this one was so I brought her to my parents)

Everything was going great, we really liked each other (threw out the "L" word even), we both love our bay area sports teams, her personality is chill as ****, fun to be with, nothing like other girls ive been with.

But this week (mind you, this week after she met my parents and came to my house), Thursday I think, she texts me saying she's not feeling well, then goes into how "i don't know how we're gonna work out in the summer with our situations. i don't like only seeing you once a week or every two weeks" and I'm like..."Don't talk like that. We've made it work so far baby. We'll figure it out" .... she still sounds mad after saying "Okay"

The same day she sends me texts saying "I was with my bf for two years then got with you right after, I have feelings for you but I'm confused. ****"  and "My breakup with my ex was supposed to only be a break.." MIND YOU: she was still with her bf when we started talking, she quickly broke up with him, then we started talking and dating from there.

Now this weekend she's sent a text saying "We need to talk." I say yeah... we agreed on this coming Friday. Today I tried to ask her if everything is alright and she says "Yeah" then one second later "No, not really" .... Ask her what it's about she mentioned her ex situation. I tell her I'm confused as to what's going on and she says "Yeah, I'm sorry about that" and also says "I'm scared of what I'm gonna tell you "

So yeah, basically she's breaking up with me. ****ing sucks because we were going SO WELL (well I thought anyway) and I knew she has feelings for me and vise versa. I said "I love you" first and she said it on our next date. It was love fam. ****. Still trying to grasp the idea of us not together. We were great for each other.

Thanks for reading if you read the whole post, I'm honestly sad as **** right now fam. It seems like nothing can go right when it comes to relationships with me. ****. I'm honestly sad as **** thinking about it....we'll see next Friday what she says

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man at least u had a girl dawg

The confusing part of it is that she liked an Instagram pic of me today and we still are talking as if we don't know what's going down Friday. That awkwardness

The confusing part of it is that she liked an Instagram pic of me today and we still are talking as if we don't know what's going down Friday. That awkwardness

girls are confusing as **** my man, but at least u got in those pants

girls are confusing as **** my man, but at least u got in those pants

Yeah, but I thought we had something more than that

girls are confusing as **** my man, but at least u got in those pants

The confusing part of it is that she liked an Instagram pic of me today and we still are talking as if we don't know what's going down Friday. That awkwardness

She seems like she's confused too though, maybe because of the distance.  This is probably where the rubber meets the road, because there might be a chance you can save your relationship.  To do that, however, sacrifices need to be made.  The way the relationship's going now it probably will end, so it's up to you if you want something to change.

pics doe?

She seems like she's confused too though, maybe because of the distance.  This is probably where the rubber meets the road, because there might be a chance you can save your relationship.  To do that, however, sacrifices need to be made.  The way the relationship's going now it probably will end, so it's up to you if you want something to change.

She said herself she was confused, and the distance definitely doesn't help the situation. I've driven up to her city (about an hour and a half away) three times, we meet in the middle once and this last date SHE drove to down to my city, which I thought was a real sign that we had something.

I want us together, I guess all I can do is wait until Friday

imma tell you what i need

i need a girl whos gon be my baaay baaay

not much  more to say than this , its gonna be aight fam

Yo break up with her before she breaks up with you

The worst part of it is I have to wait until Friday for us to meet and talk.

Yo break up with her before she breaks up with you

good idea tbh

good idea tbh

She hasn't said she'll break up with me, that's just what I'm insinuating from her tone/texts.

Hoping she's just having a bad week/it's that time of the month or something.

girls are confusing as **** my man, but at least u got in those pants